Give Simply
Give simply this holiday season. This season is a great reminder that gifts come in all shapes and sizes, and the perfect gift is one given out of love. We all possess the ability to have a huge impact on someone’s life, and simply offering time to others may be the best gift to give right now.
Having a support system is critical when we are being stretched in every role we occupy, whether that is on the job, caring for the young or old, being a good partner, feeling isolated, or just handling the stress of our new reality.
The other day I called a colleague I had not spoken to since pre-COVID. After speaking to her for a few minutes, it was clear that she needed to talk. So many things has changed in her life and she was apprehensive about what was to come. I reminded her of instances where she had overcome far greater obstacles due to her whit and tenacity. By the end of the conversation, she was more relaxed and confident in what the future could hold. As we said our good byes, she said, “I want to really thank you for calling. You have no idea how helpful it was to just talk things out and see a new perspective. I’m so thankful I have you in my life.”
I realized that just listening and offering encouragement can be the kind of simple gift a lot of people need right now. Making a call, sending a card, encouraging others, or listening intently are great are examples of simple gifts of time to give this holiday season.
No one knows what the future holds but we can be there for each other as we go through it. I challenge you to offer your time to others. It may be just the gift they need right now!
Dawn Sohns, Vice President for Marketing and Communications, SUNY Delhi